The Book
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127 pages, 120 questions (PDF) - Instant download
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120 questions for your parents and for your children
Things INeverAsked You
The question, the exact words to ask it, and one small step for tonight. For the talks your family never had.
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You know the feeling
You almost asked once.
In the car. At the sink. On the phone, right before one of you said, “anyway, I should let you go.”
You know how he takes his coffee. You do not know what he was afraid of the year you were born.
And your child says “fine” every single day, and you both pretend that it is an answer.
It was never the wrong moment. You just did not have the words.
Open a page
Every page hands you the words.
Page 1 of 3
Real pages from the book. Tap the page to see the next one.
How it works
Three things on a page. That is all.
1
The question
One clear question, the kind nobody in the family ever asks out loud.
2
Say it like this
The exact sentence to open it, so you do not freeze and talk about the weather.
3
Tonight
One small step: where to ask, when to ask, and what to do with the silence after.
And one line to keep, at the bottom of every page.
120questions
3parts
127pages
4minutes to start
Choose yours
Ask the first question tonight.
The Book + Cards
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127 pages, 120 questions (PDF) - 120 question cards
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The Family Set
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127 pages, 120 questions (PDF) - 120 question cards
print, cut and leave one on a pillow - What They Said
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Questions
Before you decide.
Is this a physical book?
No. It is a digital book (PDF). You download it right after you pay and read it on your phone or tablet, or print the pages you want. Nothing is shipped.
How do I use it?
Pick one page. Each page gives you one question, the exact sentence to open it, and one small step for tonight. One question is enough for an evening.
My father or mother is no longer here. Is it still for me?
Yes. Many of the questions can be asked to the person who knew them best: an aunt, an uncle, an old friend. And the third part is for your own children, so that they never have to wonder.
How old should my child be?
The questions in part three work from about six years old to grown-up. With a teenager, the car and the dark work better than the kitchen table. The pages tell you how.
Is it religious?
No. It is written for any family. There is nothing in it that a careful, family-minded home would object to.
How do I pay?
On this page, through Whop: Apple Pay, Google Pay or card. It is a one-time payment, not a subscription.
Can I get a refund?
No. It is a digital download that you receive in full the moment you pay, so all sales are final. The real pages are shown above so you can see exactly what you get before you buy.
Ask him tonight.
There will be a day when you would give anything for one more answer. This is not that day yet.